2 minutos atrás, FrangoEctomorfo disse:

 

Tinder é uma fonte praticamente ilimitada de mulheres. Você não dá conta de sair com todas que dá match.

 

Foda que as que eu acho da minha cidade, que são muitas, são todas canhões, as bonitas mesmo e gostosas são todas de cidades vizinhas, ai complica

Editado 30/06/2016 às 21:49 06/30, 2016 por Doppo (veja o histórico de edições)

14 horas atrás, Doppo disse:

Tenho que ler muita coisa ainda das ultimas paginas, o pessoal aqui são maquinas de escrever kkk

 

Sobre mulheres eu tenho uma dúvida que anda me cercando justo nesse tópico. Onde vocês arrumam tanta mulher para testar "isso ou aquilo" dito aqui nesse tópico? Vejo gente falando como se arrumassem uma a cada FDS. Festa não funciona comigo, trabalho também não pq a maioria é casada, fora isso não vejo mais alternativas.

 

14 horas atrás, Doppo disse:

 

Foda que as que eu acho da minha cidade, que são muitas, são todas canhões, as bonitas mesmo e gostosas são todas de cidades vizinhas, ai complica

Um novo Almeida no tópico?

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Muitos relacionamentos começam com um simples bom dia no supermercado.

Me lembrou disso:

 

 

Leitura obrigatória: Motivation is for the weak

Spoiler

Motivation is for the Weak

The title says it all. Self doubt is normal. However. The need for motivation is for the unsuccessful. If you know someone who needs to be lifted up *emotionally* to achieve something… He never wanted it in the first place. He’s simply someone who wishes upon a star for the world to give him something he never deserved. Even worse? He thinks the emotional pump up is good for him.

The type of person who gets amped up by written words in a text book or a motivational video will scour the internet far and wide looking for a solution to his problems. It will never come.

He will attend seminars and speaking venues. It will never help him.

He will try to use the same ideas to sell to his peers. It will never work.

He’ll never find his magic product or service to sell. He’ll never succeed even in the slightest because he is unwilling to take risks. Perhaps, if he is lucky, he gets by on a middle class salary of $100K per year. But. He’s never going to accomplish anything meaningful. Period.

Knowing that most people love this type of inspirational nonsense, many, many, many people become rich by transferring this feeling to the masses. As usual, don’t just do the opposite, be the opposite.Use motivation to sell products because people will make purchases when they are in a high emotional state.

Instead of nagging on and on about how weak people enjoy motivation (by definition they are weak because a successful person doesn’t need to be motivated) we’re going to give away a step by step process to rid yourself of the need for motivation. For free.

Step 1 – Stand up, Walk Out: Lets assume the worst. Someone reading this likely enjoys motivational speeches and other such nonsense. Time to throw away the crutch. Kill it for good. Choose a large, large, large venue (college commencement speeches and motivational seminars are good for this). Sit front and center.

You are waiting now. Wait until the crowd bends to his words. When the crowd is bending to his words you’ll sense an uncomfortable quiet and focus from those around you. This is usually just moments before the conclusion of the speech.

Stand up. Slowly. Walk through the crowd. Slowly. Never look back. As people stare at you, make eye contact until they break first or you have walked past them. Head straight. Do not look down. Time will slow as you feel the scrutiny from your “peers” weighing on your shoulders. You are not doing this for the attention. Exit the venue.

To reiterate, this is not done for attention. When you are quizzed (many will ask) as to why you left at the “best part” simply say you had to use the restroom. An emotionless statement. Do not say anything negative or positive about the speech, remain in a neutral state (Ie: you’re not doing this to be a hater). Never mention the incident again.

What have you done? You’ve taken control of your emotions. Congratulations. This is step one in your long journey to internal motivation. You will not bend to the words of others for “feelings” or “emotion” you will only listen to logic and reason. Most won’t be able to complete step one.

Example: Here is a clear example of motivational junk that doesn’t help you. At 14:10 you walk out the door.

*Note 1: This is certainly rude. The one time event of learning to control your emotions is worth many thousands of dollars. Here’s a hint. The speaker has no interest in giving you money so it is going to be a great long-term investment for you. The only message is to work as hard as you can, no actionable advice is given beyond getting rid of your cell phone.

This video was found in a YouTube search and you can replace it with any other video. The inflection point is usually right before the conclusion which is always the same “work as hard as you can”. If you’re already trying your best then there is no reason to watch the video correct? Correct.

Step 2 – Testing Phase: The one time event above is going to give you more adrenaline than the entire speech. You’ve stood up against the largest enemy of all. The masses. Learn to control your heart rate and bring yourself back down to normalcy as fast as possible.

After taking a large jump towards emotional control, it is time to see what you are actually good at. The bad news? Time is not on your side (it never is). The good news? Everyone is good at something.

Find twenty five subjects that you are interested in. Since this blog is about making money, Wall Street and having fun we’re going to assume you’re more interested in the money part. Go and try all of them until you feel comfortable with the subject. It may take 4-6 months but we doubt it. You’re going to be good at some, terrible at others and have potential in *maybe* two of them. Check those two out.

How do you know the difference between good and potential? Other people will tell you that you’re good at it. These people will not be your friends and family, they will have businesses in the same field.

To conclude the testing phase, here’s the rub. Most people try to “do what they love”. This does not work. Almost everyone would love a life where they have sex everyday, get drunk and make a lot of money for doing nothing. Naturally, none of this is really going to get you anywhere. Instead of “doing what you love” find what you are actually good at first (maybe only a few things) then figure out if you can do it for many hours per day… bringing us to step 3.

Step 3 – Stress Testing: Stress test refers to stress testing your physical body. Step number 2 already determined if you have the talent/intelligence to be good at the task (remember other people will tell you that you’re good!). Lets assume you found two topics that you have a knack for. Time to stress test. Can you do this for 80+ hours a week consistently? Try it.

You try one. You find that you’re sick of it after a week. Complaining about the lack of sleep. Complaining about the types of people you were meeting. Complaining about the effort it took to improve upon your craft. Complaining about the process of setting up the business.

You try another one. You don’t complain about your lack of sleep because you wake up energized. Strange. You don’t complain about the people you meet, there are some bad apples but it is tolerable. Strange. You don’t mind the hassles of dealing with a miniature set of customers. Strange again. Strange that you’re working the same hours but you’re not tired anymore. You found a potential revenue stream.

Step 4 – Prioritize: So you’ve found one interest with revenue potential. Check. You’ve already stress tested yourself for 3 months or so. Check. Now it’s time to re-prioritize your life to go all in on your new found venture while maintaining a normal social personality. You can guess where we’re going with this.

You commit 100%. You care about every single detail. You do not cut any corners. You do not run in blind. You start building based on long hours of research and effort and commit every single ounce of energy into the project until you are beat. Now you’ve got 1-2 hours of leisure time and 6-8 hours to sleep… Remember step 2? This is how you avoid becoming a boring type A person who no one wants to hang out with .

Keep those fun ideas in your back pocket and they become your new source of fun/entertainment. You will go through phases and cycle through many activities where you’ll be “pretty good” and more and more people will enter your social circle.

Wash, rinse, repeat.

Example: Maybe you need an example. One is staring right at you. This blog. This blog falls into the hobby/entertainment aspect of life. While it has evolved over time as any hobby will, the chances that we try to build this blog up appropriately (see cater to the masses) is next to zero percent.

Alright, alright it actually is zero percent since we’re terrible writers anyway (too blunt and don’t cater to idiots).

Alternatively? We take our real side businesses (some smart readers already figured those out) and Wall Street work extremely seriously. You care about everything in that case. You care if the charts have tic-marks or not. You care if there is a typo on a slide no one will read. You care if you respond to a client in 90 seconds or 45 seconds. Everything matters.

Step 5 – Daily, Monthly and Annual Accountability: This is similar to your journal. If you’ve done the first four steps appropriately you won’t waste your time listening to speeches or reading insanely corny success stories. How does reading about the success of someone else without any actual *actionable* advice help you? It doesn’t. If you cannot apply it, you have wasted your valuable time. Again, if someone else has to get you to take action… you are going to lose in the ring every single time to the person who inspired you to take action! You do not read to take action… You only read in search of actionable advice.

No exceptions.

You write down your accomplishments, your failures (you’ll fail a lot!) and your future tasks every single day. Every single month. Every single year. You tell no one on a personal basis that you are doing this. It is up to you and only you to hold yourself accountable and compare yourself to the person you were last year. (under no circumstances do you compare yourself to others, there is always someone better than you)

Example: The easiest example is financial if you’re on Wall Street. You know the comp structure and you know what the Street pays. Luckily it is an up or out environment (you’re moving up or getting fired).

Analyst – Base $80-100K (100% targeted bonus) 160-200K (age 22-25)

Associate – Base $120-160K (100% targeted bonus minimum) $350-400K if you are promoted to VP (age 26-33, wide range due to young talent and MBAs)

VP – Base $175-200K (100%+, call it 125% targeted bonus) (age 30+)

Director – Base $225-250K (Variable call it 1.5x base salary target) (age 32+)

Managing Director – Base $325-375K (Variable, call it 2x base salary as a target) (age 32+)

*Note: Yes base salaries at the junior level are moving up a tad, call it $5-10K depending on if you’re an associate or an analyst. However, as the numbers show, your goal is to get promoted since the variable numbers become larger and larger as a % of your salary

If you’re not on Wall Street, try the following: make your income grow at a faster rate each year. This is extremely difficult. In simple terms, if you were up 10% last year, your goal is to be up 15% this year. If you are up 20% then you want to be up 25%. The “law of large numbers” works against you. This is the fun part of the game (it is just that, a game).

Finally, throwing income out of the equation, if you run into an acquaintance you have not seen for a year he/she should recognize that *something has changed*. Many times people cannot put their finger on it, but you are simply different (in a good way) compared to the last time you two spoke.

Step 6 – No One Cares About Your Career or Business: Most people talk about their work, career or business. Can it. Unless the person you are meeting can potentially help you in your venture, there is no point in giving people information about your life. When you are out once or twice a week since you earned it (from all of your 12-16 hour days) leave it all behind you.

This will work wonders for you. Most people dislike what they do so bringing up work in a social environment is a terrible decision. In addition, if people realize you’re happy with your life they will pepper you with questions and waste more of your time. It’s a lose, lose situation. You either kill the atmosphere, make the person feel unhappy talking about careers/work or you have a mediocre person trying to squeeze information out of you.

Remember, if you’re going to meet someone to discuss important topics, you’re not meeting them out and about on leisure time. To repeat… Can it.

Step 7 – Repeat Step 2: Once you’ve squeezed as much as you can from one venture, it is time to move to the next. Do not let your life pass you by. Every year should be filled with interesting and new hobbies (see the attempt at 25 different activities) and ideas. If you think that the last year flew by, it means you were in a mundane routine. Do not do this.

Step 8 – Bonus Sales Tip: Now that we’ve basically killed the myth on motivational speaking and other such nonsense… You know what to do… Use it to sell. By definition, again, the masses love this stuff! If the masses love to be motivated and pumped up… Use motivation to sell more products and services! Get them amped up and feeling good about themselves then make the sale.

No we’re not saying you should sell BS products (you won’t last long in that case). Instead, make the connection that if motivation and pump up speeches are popular… You know the masses will buy.

Concluding Remarks and the TL;DR Version: In short, motivation is a tool used to sell to the masses. If you can make someone feel hyped they will bend to your beliefs and convert (convert is basic internet marketing language for purchase). It is perfectly fine to use motivation to your advantage to sell products.

From an individual standpoint however… No one should be able to motivate you. You should be internally motivated to do well and the external motivators should be telling you to slow down if anything. People who are internally motivated have a problem of going too far. People who need external motivation have not even started in the first place.

The Bullets: 1) go against the grain in a large environment to take control of your emotions, 2) find what you’re good at – a long-term theme in this blog – no one can hold your hand through this process, 3) stress test yourself intensely and find out if you can actually handle 80+ hours a week – most give up after 50, 4) prioritize everything in your life to maximize your brain cells towards that activity, 5) hold yourself accountable on a daily basis and have an annual review – the harshest critic should be yourself, 6) leave all this effort behind you during down time, your brain needs to recharge and no one cares about your success, 7) repeat step 2, most people work boring 9-5 jobs so they do not know the difference between year one and year five.

We realize this post is going to piss off a lot of people. This is fine. We need to decrease the traffic here and get rid of the mediocre people who have found the blog. They can go back to watching motivational videos! We also noticed that someone else agrees with the belief that motivation is nonsense… naturally he’s a successful hedge fund manager with an 8 figure net worth. Go figure.

3 horas atrás, CassioGolden disse:

Um novo Almeida no tópico?
Não dê explicações pra nós. Dê soluções pra si mesmo.
Muitos relacionamentos começam com um simples bom dia no supermercado.

Se o cara for virgem perguntando sobre pegar mulher em um fórum que é uns dos últimos redutos de virilidade é porque ele deve morar em um castelo.

10 horas atrás, MrCrowley disse:

Leitura obrigatória: Motivation is for the weak

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Motivation is for the Weak

The title says it all. Self doubt is normal. However. The need for motivation is for the unsuccessful. If you know someone who needs to be lifted up *emotionally* to achieve something… He never wanted it in the first place. He’s simply someone who wishes upon a star for the world to give him something he never deserved. Even worse? He thinks the emotional pump up is good for him.

The type of person who gets amped up by written words in a text book or a motivational video will scour the internet far and wide looking for a solution to his problems. It will never come.

He will attend seminars and speaking venues. It will never help him.

He will try to use the same ideas to sell to his peers. It will never work.

He’ll never find his magic product or service to sell. He’ll never succeed even in the slightest because he is unwilling to take risks. Perhaps, if he is lucky, he gets by on a middle class salary of $100K per year. But. He’s never going to accomplish anything meaningful. Period.

Knowing that most people love this type of inspirational nonsense, many, many, many people become rich by transferring this feeling to the masses. As usual, don’t just do the opposite, be the opposite.Use motivation to sell products because people will make purchases when they are in a high emotional state.

Instead of nagging on and on about how weak people enjoy motivation (by definition they are weak because a successful person doesn’t need to be motivated) we’re going to give away a step by step process to rid yourself of the need for motivation. For free.

Step 1 – Stand up, Walk Out: Lets assume the worst. Someone reading this likely enjoys motivational speeches and other such nonsense. Time to throw away the crutch. Kill it for good. Choose a large, large, large venue (college commencement speeches and motivational seminars are good for this). Sit front and center.

You are waiting now. Wait until the crowd bends to his words. When the crowd is bending to his words you’ll sense an uncomfortable quiet and focus from those around you. This is usually just moments before the conclusion of the speech.

Stand up. Slowly. Walk through the crowd. Slowly. Never look back. As people stare at you, make eye contact until they break first or you have walked past them. Head straight. Do not look down. Time will slow as you feel the scrutiny from your “peers” weighing on your shoulders. You are not doing this for the attention. Exit the venue.

To reiterate, this is not done for attention. When you are quizzed (many will ask) as to why you left at the “best part” simply say you had to use the restroom. An emotionless statement. Do not say anything negative or positive about the speech, remain in a neutral state (Ie: you’re not doing this to be a hater). Never mention the incident again.

What have you done? You’ve taken control of your emotions. Congratulations. This is step one in your long journey to internal motivation. You will not bend to the words of others for “feelings” or “emotion” you will only listen to logic and reason. Most won’t be able to complete step one.

Example: Here is a clear example of motivational junk that doesn’t help you. At 14:10 you walk out the door.

*Note 1: This is certainly rude. The one time event of learning to control your emotions is worth many thousands of dollars. Here’s a hint. The speaker has no interest in giving you money so it is going to be a great long-term investment for you. The only message is to work as hard as you can, no actionable advice is given beyond getting rid of your cell phone.

This video was found in a YouTube search and you can replace it with any other video. The inflection point is usually right before the conclusion which is always the same “work as hard as you can”. If you’re already trying your best then there is no reason to watch the video correct? Correct.

Step 2 – Testing Phase: The one time event above is going to give you more adrenaline than the entire speech. You’ve stood up against the largest enemy of all. The masses. Learn to control your heart rate and bring yourself back down to normalcy as fast as possible.

After taking a large jump towards emotional control, it is time to see what you are actually good at. The bad news? Time is not on your side (it never is). The good news? Everyone is good at something.

Find twenty five subjects that you are interested in. Since this blog is about making money, Wall Street and having fun we’re going to assume you’re more interested in the money part. Go and try all of them until you feel comfortable with the subject. It may take 4-6 months but we doubt it. You’re going to be good at some, terrible at others and have potential in *maybe* two of them. Check those two out.

How do you know the difference between good and potential? Other people will tell you that you’re good at it. These people will not be your friends and family, they will have businesses in the same field.

To conclude the testing phase, here’s the rub. Most people try to “do what they love”. This does not work. Almost everyone would love a life where they have sex everyday, get drunk and make a lot of money for doing nothing. Naturally, none of this is really going to get you anywhere. Instead of “doing what you love” find what you are actually good at first (maybe only a few things) then figure out if you can do it for many hours per day… bringing us to step 3.

Step 3 – Stress Testing: Stress test refers to stress testing your physical body. Step number 2 already determined if you have the talent/intelligence to be good at the task (remember other people will tell you that you’re good!). Lets assume you found two topics that you have a knack for. Time to stress test. Can you do this for 80+ hours a week consistently? Try it.

You try one. You find that you’re sick of it after a week. Complaining about the lack of sleep. Complaining about the types of people you were meeting. Complaining about the effort it took to improve upon your craft. Complaining about the process of setting up the business.

You try another one. You don’t complain about your lack of sleep because you wake up energized. Strange. You don’t complain about the people you meet, there are some bad apples but it is tolerable. Strange. You don’t mind the hassles of dealing with a miniature set of customers. Strange again. Strange that you’re working the same hours but you’re not tired anymore. You found a potential revenue stream.

Step 4 – Prioritize: So you’ve found one interest with revenue potential. Check. You’ve already stress tested yourself for 3 months or so. Check. Now it’s time to re-prioritize your life to go all in on your new found venture while maintaining a normal social personality. You can guess where we’re going with this.

You commit 100%. You care about every single detail. You do not cut any corners. You do not run in blind. You start building based on long hours of research and effort and commit every single ounce of energy into the project until you are beat. Now you’ve got 1-2 hours of leisure time and 6-8 hours to sleep… Remember step 2? This is how you avoid becoming a boring type A person who no one wants to hang out with .

Keep those fun ideas in your back pocket and they become your new source of fun/entertainment. You will go through phases and cycle through many activities where you’ll be “pretty good” and more and more people will enter your social circle.

Wash, rinse, repeat.

Example: Maybe you need an example. One is staring right at you. This blog. This blog falls into the hobby/entertainment aspect of life. While it has evolved over time as any hobby will, the chances that we try to build this blog up appropriately (see cater to the masses) is next to zero percent.

Alright, alright it actually is zero percent since we’re terrible writers anyway (too blunt and don’t cater to idiots).

Alternatively? We take our real side businesses (some smart readers already figured those out) and Wall Street work extremely seriously. You care about everything in that case. You care if the charts have tic-marks or not. You care if there is a typo on a slide no one will read. You care if you respond to a client in 90 seconds or 45 seconds. Everything matters.

Step 5 – Daily, Monthly and Annual Accountability: This is similar to your journal. If you’ve done the first four steps appropriately you won’t waste your time listening to speeches or reading insanely corny success stories. How does reading about the success of someone else without any actual *actionable* advice help you? It doesn’t. If you cannot apply it, you have wasted your valuable time. Again, if someone else has to get you to take action… you are going to lose in the ring every single time to the person who inspired you to take action! You do not read to take action… You only read in search of actionable advice.

No exceptions.

You write down your accomplishments, your failures (you’ll fail a lot!) and your future tasks every single day. Every single month. Every single year. You tell no one on a personal basis that you are doing this. It is up to you and only you to hold yourself accountable and compare yourself to the person you were last year. (under no circumstances do you compare yourself to others, there is always someone better than you)

Example: The easiest example is financial if you’re on Wall Street. You know the comp structure and you know what the Street pays. Luckily it is an up or out environment (you’re moving up or getting fired).

Analyst – Base $80-100K (100% targeted bonus) 160-200K (age 22-25)

Associate – Base $120-160K (100% targeted bonus minimum) $350-400K if you are promoted to VP (age 26-33, wide range due to young talent and MBAs)

VP – Base $175-200K (100%+, call it 125% targeted bonus) (age 30+)

Director – Base $225-250K (Variable call it 1.5x base salary target) (age 32+)

Managing Director – Base $325-375K (Variable, call it 2x base salary as a target) (age 32+)

*Note: Yes base salaries at the junior level are moving up a tad, call it $5-10K depending on if you’re an associate or an analyst. However, as the numbers show, your goal is to get promoted since the variable numbers become larger and larger as a % of your salary

If you’re not on Wall Street, try the following: make your income grow at a faster rate each year. This is extremely difficult. In simple terms, if you were up 10% last year, your goal is to be up 15% this year. If you are up 20% then you want to be up 25%. The “law of large numbers” works against you. This is the fun part of the game (it is just that, a game).

Finally, throwing income out of the equation, if you run into an acquaintance you have not seen for a year he/she should recognize that *something has changed*. Many times people cannot put their finger on it, but you are simply different (in a good way) compared to the last time you two spoke.

Step 6 – No One Cares About Your Career or Business: Most people talk about their work, career or business. Can it. Unless the person you are meeting can potentially help you in your venture, there is no point in giving people information about your life. When you are out once or twice a week since you earned it (from all of your 12-16 hour days) leave it all behind you.

This will work wonders for you. Most people dislike what they do so bringing up work in a social environment is a terrible decision. In addition, if people realize you’re happy with your life they will pepper you with questions and waste more of your time. It’s a lose, lose situation. You either kill the atmosphere, make the person feel unhappy talking about careers/work or you have a mediocre person trying to squeeze information out of you.

Remember, if you’re going to meet someone to discuss important topics, you’re not meeting them out and about on leisure time. To repeat… Can it.

Step 7 – Repeat Step 2: Once you’ve squeezed as much as you can from one venture, it is time to move to the next. Do not let your life pass you by. Every year should be filled with interesting and new hobbies (see the attempt at 25 different activities) and ideas. If you think that the last year flew by, it means you were in a mundane routine. Do not do this.

Step 8 – Bonus Sales Tip: Now that we’ve basically killed the myth on motivational speaking and other such nonsense… You know what to do… Use it to sell. By definition, again, the masses love this stuff! If the masses love to be motivated and pumped up… Use motivation to sell more products and services! Get them amped up and feeling good about themselves then make the sale.

No we’re not saying you should sell BS products (you won’t last long in that case). Instead, make the connection that if motivation and pump up speeches are popular… You know the masses will buy.

Concluding Remarks and the TL;DR Version: In short, motivation is a tool used to sell to the masses. If you can make someone feel hyped they will bend to your beliefs and convert (convert is basic internet marketing language for purchase). It is perfectly fine to use motivation to your advantage to sell products.

From an individual standpoint however… No one should be able to motivate you. You should be internally motivated to do well and the external motivators should be telling you to slow down if anything. People who are internally motivated have a problem of going too far. People who need external motivation have not even started in the first place.

The Bullets: 1) go against the grain in a large environment to take control of your emotions, 2) find what you’re good at – a long-term theme in this blog – no one can hold your hand through this process, 3) stress test yourself intensely and find out if you can actually handle 80+ hours a week – most give up after 50, 4) prioritize everything in your life to maximize your brain cells towards that activity, 5) hold yourself accountable on a daily basis and have an annual review – the harshest critic should be yourself, 6) leave all this effort behind you during down time, your brain needs to recharge and no one cares about your success, 7) repeat step 2, most people work boring 9-5 jobs so they do not know the difference between year one and year five.

We realize this post is going to piss off a lot of people. This is fine. We need to decrease the traffic here and get rid of the mediocre people who have found the blog. They can go back to watching motivational videos! We also noticed that someone else agrees with the belief that motivation is nonsense… naturally he’s a successful hedge fund manager with an 8 figure net worth. Go figure.

 

Me lembrou desse texto

 

https://www.hipertrofia.org/blog/2015/05/04/fda-se-a-motivacao-voce-precisa-e-de-disciplina/

Queria agradecer às pessoas que postam nesse tópico. Sempre fui auto-confiante mas esses textos e temáticas realmente separam meninos de homens.

 

Entrando no tópico já querendo uma opinião:

o que vocês acham de sair com aquelas moças que são meia boca, rola um sexo as vezes e você não quer nada demais. É perder tempo? vale a pena?

Me preocupo com o sentimento de algumas, umas poucas se apegam e é triste ver que você só usa a mina pra comer

por outro lado esses contatos é que dão as transas fixas né...

Keep the plates spinning.

 

Cara, só vai.
Tudo depende do esforço. Levar em bar meia boca, tomar umas e transar sempre rola. Levar p night não rola, eu não faço.

Nessas situações não é perda de tempo, só não pode acomodar pq tem foda fixa.

 

Eu procuro deixar as coisas claras. Vc aprende a lidar com isso. Geralmente elas insinuam algo, nunca falam diretamente, ai vc já mata isso no inicio, elas acabam por dizer "ah, deixa quieto, não quero dizer nada".

 

Mas não gosto de manter foda fixa, prefiro deixar a opção em aberto.

E a melhor parte, na minha opinião, é encontra-las na noite e usa-las p elevar seu valor social ali no momento.

 

E outra coisa, não são só as média que transam, a gatinha solteira tá dando p alguém tb, n se engane. Começa pela feia e vai buscando fodas melhores.

 

No final a escolha é sua, sempre.

 

E cara, não se preocupe, se fosse ao contrário elas arrancariam seus culhões sem pestanejar.

 

abs

1 hora atrás, Honra disse:

Queria agradecer às pessoas que postam nesse tópico. Sempre fui auto-confiante mas esses textos e temáticas realmente separam meninos de homens.

 

Entrando no tópico já querendo uma opinião:

o que vocês acham de sair com aquelas moças que são meia boca, rola um sexo as vezes e você não quer nada demais. É perder tempo? vale a pena?

Me preocupo com o sentimento de algumas, umas poucas se apegam e é triste ver que você só usa a mina pra comer

por outro lado esses contatos é que dão as transas fixas né...

Puts cara, se não for daquele tipo de mina que depois que tu gozar tu não aguenta nem olhar pra cara, só vai.

 

Por outro lado, se for uma daquelas minas que depois que tu come nao quer nem ver, aí eu ja senti na pele que isso não compensa kkkkk tu quer sumir depois e não tem como

qumm for bobo alegre não precisa ler

 

 

The role of testosterone in social interaction Christoph Eisenegger1 , Johannes Haushofer2 and Ernst Fehr2 1Behavioral and Clinical Neuroscience Institute, Department of Experimental Psychology, Downing Street, University of Cambridge, CB2 3EB, UK 2 Department of Economics, Laboratory for Social and Neural Systems Research, University of Zurich, Blu¨ mlisalpstrasse 10, 8006 Zurich, Switzerland

 

https://www.gwern.net/docs/nootropics/2011-eisenegger.pdf

 

6 horas atrás, Patrick Bateman disse:

E outra coisa, não são só as média que transam, a gatinha solteira tá dando p alguém tb, n se engane

se existe mulher santa, está num convento...  todas tão dando a maior parte do tempo

 

6 horas atrás, Patrick Bateman disse:

E cara, não se preocupe, se fosse ao contrário elas arrancariam seus culhões sem pestanejar.

 

pura verdade...as mulheres vão te usar sem pena se vc deixar.. até a última gotacom um sorriso no rosto, dizendo que te ama

 

 

mas também dá pra falar que não está procrrando algo muito sério no momento, e a maioria vai se esforçar pra agradar.... pra tentar mudar sua idéia hahah

 

6 horas atrás, Honra disse:

 

 

 

 

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os caras que falam sobre escolher bem...  mulheres são mentirosas e manipuladoras, todas são...umas mais outras menos...  mas aquela geração de mulhheres que casa pra vida toda e fica cuidando do macho se esse perder emprego, ficar doente, ter depressão, não existem mais... mulher também raramente tem gratidão...não se iludam..  separação total de bens

Em 01/07/2016 at 10:07, MrCrowley disse:

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Motivation is for the Weak

The title says it all. Self doubt is normal. However. The need for motivation is for the unsuccessful. If you know someone who needs to be lifted up *emotionally* to achieve something… He never wanted it in the first place. He’s simply someone who wishes upon a star for the world to give him something he never deserved. Even worse? He thinks the emotional pump up is good for him.

The type of person who gets amped up by written words in a text book or a motivational video will scour the internet far and wide looking for a solution to his problems. It will never come.

He will attend seminars and speaking venues. It will never help him.

He will try to use the same ideas to sell to his peers. It will never work.

He’ll never find his magic product or service to sell. He’ll never succeed even in the slightest because he is unwilling to take risks. Perhaps, if he is lucky, he gets by on a middle class salary of $100K per year. But. He’s never going to accomplish anything meaningful. Period.

Knowing that most people love this type of inspirational nonsense, many, many, many people become rich by transferring this feeling to the masses. As usual, don’t just do the opposite, be the opposite.Use motivation to sell products because people will make purchases when they are in a high emotional state.

Instead of nagging on and on about how weak people enjoy motivation (by definition they are weak because a successful person doesn’t need to be motivated) we’re going to give away a step by step process to rid yourself of the need for motivation. For free.

Step 1 – Stand up, Walk Out: Lets assume the worst. Someone reading this likely enjoys motivational speeches and other such nonsense. Time to throw away the crutch. Kill it for good. Choose a large, large, large venue (college commencement speeches and motivational seminars are good for this). Sit front and center.

You are waiting now. Wait until the crowd bends to his words. When the crowd is bending to his words you’ll sense an uncomfortable quiet and focus from those around you. This is usually just moments before the conclusion of the speech.

Stand up. Slowly. Walk through the crowd. Slowly. Never look back. As people stare at you, make eye contact until they break first or you have walked past them. Head straight. Do not look down. Time will slow as you feel the scrutiny from your “peers” weighing on your shoulders. You are not doing this for the attention. Exit the venue.

To reiterate, this is not done for attention. When you are quizzed (many will ask) as to why you left at the “best part” simply say you had to use the restroom. An emotionless statement. Do not say anything negative or positive about the speech, remain in a neutral state (Ie: you’re not doing this to be a hater). Never mention the incident again.

What have you done? You’ve taken control of your emotions. Congratulations. This is step one in your long journey to internal motivation. You will not bend to the words of others for “feelings” or “emotion” you will only listen to logic and reason. Most won’t be able to complete step one.

Example: Here is a clear example of motivational junk that doesn’t help you. At 14:10 you walk out the door.

*Note 1: This is certainly rude. The one time event of learning to control your emotions is worth many thousands of dollars. Here’s a hint. The speaker has no interest in giving you money so it is going to be a great long-term investment for you. The only message is to work as hard as you can, no actionable advice is given beyond getting rid of your cell phone.

This video was found in a YouTube search and you can replace it with any other video. The inflection point is usually right before the conclusion which is always the same “work as hard as you can”. If you’re already trying your best then there is no reason to watch the video correct? Correct.

Step 2 – Testing Phase: The one time event above is going to give you more adrenaline than the entire speech. You’ve stood up against the largest enemy of all. The masses. Learn to control your heart rate and bring yourself back down to normalcy as fast as possible.

After taking a large jump towards emotional control, it is time to see what you are actually good at. The bad news? Time is not on your side (it never is). The good news? Everyone is good at something.

Find twenty five subjects that you are interested in. Since this blog is about making money, Wall Street and having fun we’re going to assume you’re more interested in the money part. Go and try all of them until you feel comfortable with the subject. It may take 4-6 months but we doubt it. You’re going to be good at some, terrible at others and have potential in *maybe* two of them. Check those two out.

How do you know the difference between good and potential? Other people will tell you that you’re good at it. These people will not be your friends and family, they will have businesses in the same field.

To conclude the testing phase, here’s the rub. Most people try to “do what they love”. This does not work. Almost everyone would love a life where they have sex everyday, get drunk and make a lot of money for doing nothing. Naturally, none of this is really going to get you anywhere. Instead of “doing what you love” find what you are actually good at first (maybe only a few things) then figure out if you can do it for many hours per day… bringing us to step 3.

Step 3 – Stress Testing: Stress test refers to stress testing your physical body. Step number 2 already determined if you have the talent/intelligence to be good at the task (remember other people will tell you that you’re good!). Lets assume you found two topics that you have a knack for. Time to stress test. Can you do this for 80+ hours a week consistently? Try it.

You try one. You find that you’re sick of it after a week. Complaining about the lack of sleep. Complaining about the types of people you were meeting. Complaining about the effort it took to improve upon your craft. Complaining about the process of setting up the business.

You try another one. You don’t complain about your lack of sleep because you wake up energized. Strange. You don’t complain about the people you meet, there are some bad apples but it is tolerable. Strange. You don’t mind the hassles of dealing with a miniature set of customers. Strange again. Strange that you’re working the same hours but you’re not tired anymore. You found a potential revenue stream.

Step 4 – Prioritize: So you’ve found one interest with revenue potential. Check. You’ve already stress tested yourself for 3 months or so. Check. Now it’s time to re-prioritize your life to go all in on your new found venture while maintaining a normal social personality. You can guess where we’re going with this.

You commit 100%. You care about every single detail. You do not cut any corners. You do not run in blind. You start building based on long hours of research and effort and commit every single ounce of energy into the project until you are beat. Now you’ve got 1-2 hours of leisure time and 6-8 hours to sleep… Remember step 2? This is how you avoid becoming a boring type A person who no one wants to hang out with .

Keep those fun ideas in your back pocket and they become your new source of fun/entertainment. You will go through phases and cycle through many activities where you’ll be “pretty good” and more and more people will enter your social circle.

Wash, rinse, repeat.

Example: Maybe you need an example. One is staring right at you. This blog. This blog falls into the hobby/entertainment aspect of life. While it has evolved over time as any hobby will, the chances that we try to build this blog up appropriately (see cater to the masses) is next to zero percent.

Alright, alright it actually is zero percent since we’re terrible writers anyway (too blunt and don’t cater to idiots).

Alternatively? We take our real side businesses (some smart readers already figured those out) and Wall Street work extremely seriously. You care about everything in that case. You care if the charts have tic-marks or not. You care if there is a typo on a slide no one will read. You care if you respond to a client in 90 seconds or 45 seconds. Everything matters.

Step 5 – Daily, Monthly and Annual Accountability: This is similar to your journal. If you’ve done the first four steps appropriately you won’t waste your time listening to speeches or reading insanely corny success stories. How does reading about the success of someone else without any actual *actionable* advice help you? It doesn’t. If you cannot apply it, you have wasted your valuable time. Again, if someone else has to get you to take action… you are going to lose in the ring every single time to the person who inspired you to take action! You do not read to take action… You only read in search of actionable advice.

No exceptions.

You write down your accomplishments, your failures (you’ll fail a lot!) and your future tasks every single day. Every single month. Every single year. You tell no one on a personal basis that you are doing this. It is up to you and only you to hold yourself accountable and compare yourself to the person you were last year. (under no circumstances do you compare yourself to others, there is always someone better than you)

Example: The easiest example is financial if you’re on Wall Street. You know the comp structure and you know what the Street pays. Luckily it is an up or out environment (you’re moving up or getting fired).

Analyst – Base $80-100K (100% targeted bonus) 160-200K (age 22-25)

Associate – Base $120-160K (100% targeted bonus minimum) $350-400K if you are promoted to VP (age 26-33, wide range due to young talent and MBAs)

VP – Base $175-200K (100%+, call it 125% targeted bonus) (age 30+)

Director – Base $225-250K (Variable call it 1.5x base salary target) (age 32+)

Managing Director – Base $325-375K (Variable, call it 2x base salary as a target) (age 32+)

*Note: Yes base salaries at the junior level are moving up a tad, call it $5-10K depending on if you’re an associate or an analyst. However, as the numbers show, your goal is to get promoted since the variable numbers become larger and larger as a % of your salary

If you’re not on Wall Street, try the following: make your income grow at a faster rate each year. This is extremely difficult. In simple terms, if you were up 10% last year, your goal is to be up 15% this year. If you are up 20% then you want to be up 25%. The “law of large numbers” works against you. This is the fun part of the game (it is just that, a game).

Finally, throwing income out of the equation, if you run into an acquaintance you have not seen for a year he/she should recognize that *something has changed*. Many times people cannot put their finger on it, but you are simply different (in a good way) compared to the last time you two spoke.

Step 6 – No One Cares About Your Career or Business: Most people talk about their work, career or business. Can it. Unless the person you are meeting can potentially help you in your venture, there is no point in giving people information about your life. When you are out once or twice a week since you earned it (from all of your 12-16 hour days) leave it all behind you.

This will work wonders for you. Most people dislike what they do so bringing up work in a social environment is a terrible decision. In addition, if people realize you’re happy with your life they will pepper you with questions and waste more of your time. It’s a lose, lose situation. You either kill the atmosphere, make the person feel unhappy talking about careers/work or you have a mediocre person trying to squeeze information out of you.

Remember, if you’re going to meet someone to discuss important topics, you’re not meeting them out and about on leisure time. To repeat… Can it.

Step 7 – Repeat Step 2: Once you’ve squeezed as much as you can from one venture, it is time to move to the next. Do not let your life pass you by. Every year should be filled with interesting and new hobbies (see the attempt at 25 different activities) and ideas. If you think that the last year flew by, it means you were in a mundane routine. Do not do this.

Step 8 – Bonus Sales Tip: Now that we’ve basically killed the myth on motivational speaking and other such nonsense… You know what to do… Use it to sell. By definition, again, the masses love this stuff! If the masses love to be motivated and pumped up… Use motivation to sell more products and services! Get them amped up and feeling good about themselves then make the sale.

No we’re not saying you should sell BS products (you won’t last long in that case). Instead, make the connection that if motivation and pump up speeches are popular… You know the masses will buy.

Concluding Remarks and the TL;DR Version: In short, motivation is a tool used to sell to the masses. If you can make someone feel hyped they will bend to your beliefs and convert (convert is basic internet marketing language for purchase). It is perfectly fine to use motivation to your advantage to sell products.

From an individual standpoint however… No one should be able to motivate you. You should be internally motivated to do well and the external motivators should be telling you to slow down if anything. People who are internally motivated have a problem of going too far. People who need external motivation have not even started in the first place.

The Bullets: 1) go against the grain in a large environment to take control of your emotions, 2) find what you’re good at – a long-term theme in this blog – no one can hold your hand through this process, 3) stress test yourself intensely and find out if you can actually handle 80+ hours a week – most give up after 50, 4) prioritize everything in your life to maximize your brain cells towards that activity, 5) hold yourself accountable on a daily basis and have an annual review – the harshest critic should be yourself, 6) leave all this effort behind you during down time, your brain needs to recharge and no one cares about your success, 7) repeat step 2, most people work boring 9-5 jobs so they do not know the difference between year one and year five.

We realize this post is going to piss off a lot of people. This is fine. We need to decrease the traffic here and get rid of the mediocre people who have found the blog. They can go back to watching motivational videos! We also noticed that someone else agrees with the belief that motivation is nonsense… naturally he’s a successful hedge fund manager with an 8 figure net worth. Go figure.

TL;DR Version: In short, motivation is a tool used to sell to the masses. If you can make someone feel hyped they will bend to your beliefs and convert (convert is basic internet marketing language for purchase). It is perfectly fine to use motivation to your advantage to sell products.

From an individual standpoint however… No one should be able to motivate you. You should be internally motivated to do well and the external motivators should be telling you to slow down if anything. People who are internally motivated have a problem of going too far. People who need external motivation have not even started in the first place.

The Bullets: 1) go against the grain in a large environment to take control of your emotions, 2) find what you’re good at – a long-term theme in this blog – no one can hold your hand through this process, 3) stress test yourself intensely and find out if you can actually handle 80+ hours a week – most give up after 50, 4) prioritize everything in your life to maximize your brain cells towards that activity, 5) hold yourself accountable on a daily basis and have an annual review – the harshest critic should be yourself, 6) leave all this effort behind you during down time, your brain needs to recharge and no one cares about your success, 7) repeat step 2, most people work boring 9-5 jobs so they do not know the difference between year one and year five.

We realize this post is going to piss off a lot of people. This is fine. We need to decrease the traffic here and get rid of the mediocre people who have found the blog. They can go back to watching motivational videos! We also noticed that someone else agrees with the belief that motivation is nonsense… naturally he’s a successful hedge fund manager with an 8 figure net worth. Go figure.

9 horas atrás, planeta disse:

TL;DR Version: In short, motivation is a tool used to sell to the masses. If you can make someone feel hyped they will bend to your beliefs and convert (convert is basic internet marketing language for purchase). It is perfectly fine to use motivation to your advantage to sell products.

From an individual standpoint however… No one should be able to motivate you. You should be internally motivated to do well and the external motivators should be telling you to slow down if anything. People who are internally motivated have a problem of going too far. People who need external motivation have not even started in the first place.

The Bullets: 1) go against the grain in a large environment to take control of your emotions, 2) find what you’re good at – a long-term theme in this blog – no one can hold your hand through this process, 3) stress test yourself intensely and find out if you can actually handle 80+ hours a week – most give up after 50, 4) prioritize everything in your life to maximize your brain cells towards that activity, 5) hold yourself accountable on a daily basis and have an annual review – the harshest critic should be yourself, 6) leave all this effort behind you during down time, your brain needs to recharge and no one cares about your success, 7) repeat step 2, most people work boring 9-5 jobs so they do not know the difference between year one and year five.

We realize this post is going to piss off a lot of people. This is fine. We need to decrease the traffic here and get rid of the mediocre people who have found the blog. They can go back to watching motivational videos! We also noticed that someone else agrees with the belief that motivation is nonsense… naturally he’s a successful hedge fund manager with an 8 figure net worth. Go figure.

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não é que vc é um quebrado sem carro... o problema é que vc se importa com isso... e não faz nada pra mudar...

 

vc tem duas opções pra ser atraente...

 

 vc se importa, e está numa missão pra melhorar, por isso sabe que está fazendo oq deve, por isso projeta verdade

vc não se importa, e esta ali só pra curtir o momento, sabe q está fazendo oq deve naquele momento, por isso projeta verdade

 

se vc quer um carro, ter dinheiro, etc... se importa, se sente mal com isso, mas não está batalhando por isso... ai se sente um perdedor... e projeta isso... 

não projeta só em energia, projeta também em lingagem corporal, tom de voz, micro expressões..... mas tb projeta em energia...  

 

 

o que vcs acham do Elliott Hulse ?? tava vendo uns videos legendado e ele dá o papo maneiro sobre desenvolvimento pessoal..

Editado 5/07/2016 às 15:49 07/5, 2016 por Carcacinha (veja o histórico de edições)

Eu ia sair com uma hb7 que era certeza que ia me dar. Daí saí com uma hb8 que não era certeza e ela fez cu doce. O que mais rolou cmg esse ano foi cu doce. As mulheres estão mais recatadas em 2016 ou eu não tô transudo?

Alguém me manda alguns nomes de livros sobre PNL fazendo um grande favor.

1 hora atrás, spankeer disse:

Alguém me manda alguns nomes de livros sobre PNL fazendo um grande favor.

 

introdução a programação neurolinguistica

poder sem limites

 

confesso que não li nenhum...mas nos fóruns que observei eles indicavam esses como uma introdução

Galera, preciso de uma ajuda de vocês, conselhos.

Minha mulher (a qual estou casado há 1 ano) está mudando muito, está se irritando cada vez mais com coisas simples (ela sempre foi meio brava mas ta piorando), e ela quando se zanga não quer saber de nada, quer jogar coisas no chão, não se acalma, não quer conversa. Quando eu demoro um pouco chegar do trabalho já se zanga e tal.

Já estou pensando muito em separação porém não tenho certeza se seria a solução, ou se eu posso mudar ela, ou se o erro está em mim (ela sempre me culpa muito e por tudo).

Eu a amo e se tivesse um jeito de mudar pra salvar o casamento eu faria, porque do jeito que tá não to vendo outro jeito a nao ser separar, por isso preciso da ajuda de vocês. Grato.

Mas ela se irrita porque? Ciúmes?

 

Abre o jogo. Diga que está incomodado com a situação e permaneça calmo enquanto ela esperneia.

4 horas atrás, FrangoEctomorfo disse:

Eu ia sair com uma hb7 que era certeza que ia me dar. Daí saí com uma hb8 que não era certeza e ela fez cu doce. O que mais rolou cmg esse ano foi cu doce. As mulheres estão mais recatadas em 2016 ou eu não tô transudo?

Elas estão mais seletivas.

4 horas atrás, FrangoEctomorfo disse:

Eu ia sair com uma hb7 que era certeza que ia me dar. Daí saí com uma hb8 que não era certeza e ela fez cu doce. O que mais rolou cmg esse ano foi cu doce. As mulheres estão mais recatadas em 2016 ou eu não tô transudo?

O mercado bucetístico está inflacionado pelo jeito...pois é mais fácil criarem uma nave que atravessa o sol do que elas ficarem recatadas.

 

29 minutos atrás, CassioGolden disse:

Galera, preciso de uma ajuda de vocês, conselhos.

Minha mulher (a qual estou casado há 1 ano) está mudando muito, está se irritando cada vez mais com coisas simples (ela sempre foi meio brava mas ta piorando), e ela quando se zanga não quer saber de nada, quer jogar coisas no chão, não se acalma, não quer conversa. Quando eu demoro um pouco chegar do trabalho já se zanga e tal.

Já estou pensando muito em separação porém não tenho certeza se seria a solução, ou se eu posso mudar ela, ou se o erro está em mim (ela sempre me culpa muito e por tudo).

Eu a amo e se tivesse um jeito de mudar pra salvar o casamento eu faria, porque do jeito que tá não to vendo outro jeito a nao ser separar, por isso preciso da ajuda de vocês. Grato.

Eu nunca fui casado, mas se eu fosse separar/terminar namoro por causa de mulher irritada eu nunca namoraria cara. Conversa com ela.

42 minutos atrás, CassioGolden disse:

Galera, preciso de uma ajuda de vocês, conselhos.

Minha mulher (a qual estou casado há 1 ano) está mudando muito, está se irritando cada vez mais com coisas simples (ela sempre foi meio brava mas ta piorando), e ela quando se zanga não quer saber de nada, quer jogar coisas no chão, não se acalma, não quer conversa. Quando eu demoro um pouco chegar do trabalho já se zanga e tal.

Já estou pensando muito em separação porém não tenho certeza se seria a solução, ou se eu posso mudar ela, ou se o erro está em mim (ela sempre me culpa muito e por tudo).

Eu a amo e se tivesse um jeito de mudar pra salvar o casamento eu faria, porque do jeito que tá não to vendo outro jeito a nao ser separar, por isso preciso da ajuda de vocês. Grato.

Como anda a vida sexual de vcs?

2 horas atrás, CassioGolden disse:

Galera, preciso de uma ajuda de vocês, conselhos.

Minha mulher (a qual estou casado há 1 ano) está mudando muito, está se irritando cada vez mais com coisas simples (ela sempre foi meio brava mas ta piorando), e ela quando se zanga não quer saber de nada, quer jogar coisas no chão, não se acalma, não quer conversa. Quando eu demoro um pouco chegar do trabalho já se zanga e tal.

Já estou pensando muito em separação porém não tenho certeza se seria a solução, ou se eu posso mudar ela, ou se o erro está em mim (ela sempre me culpa muito e por tudo).

Eu a amo e se tivesse um jeito de mudar pra salvar o casamento eu faria, porque do jeito que tá não to vendo outro jeito a nao ser separar, por isso preciso da ajuda de vocês. Grato.

 

Leia tudo:

 

Quando você casa com uma mulher, coabita com ela, ou entra em um relacionamento exclusivo e se mantem exclusivo por um período prolongado, ela se torna confortável com você. Confortável que você está investido nela. Confortável de que você não irá deixa-la. 

Ao gastar apenas 30 segundos na internet, você pode achar uma grande lista de histórias de homens reclamando que suas esposas e namoradas são mesquinhas, ingratas, julgadoras, escrotas, loucas, e por aí vai. Mulheres que com orgulho vestem camisas proclamando que são vadias. “Sou uma ótima garota. Apenas fico louca as vezes! Haha!”. Homens de verdade deveriam ser capazes de lidar com uma mulher forte e independente que não tem medo de se expressar, não é?

As coisas não começaram assim para esses homens. Essas mulheres costumavam ser boas garotas. Alegres, agradáveis por estarem perto, sexualmente generosas. Seus olhos pulavam ao olhar para seus homens. Elas sorriam. Elas davam aquele olhar para eles. Elas espontaneamente o tocariam. Elas fariam coisas por eles. Elas se importavam com o que seus homens pensavam. Esses homens deixaram que suas mulheres ficassem muito confortáveis e familiares. Eles investiram tempo demais.

A resposta comum para uma mulher escrota é rir. Concordar e exagerar com seus “testes” (shit test). Seja jogo duro e coloque o medo da perda sobre ela. Rebaixe ela para marmita, e coloque a real realização de perda nela, não apenas o medo disso. 

Depois de tudo, se você for “alpha” o bastante e passar nos testes, ela magicamente se comportará, não é? Bem, talvez por alguns dias. E aí tudo começa novamente. Mas se você for um bom líder, ensinar e treiná-la, ela se tornará uma boa namorada, não é? Não.

Porque elas sabem. Elas não precisam ser “conduzidas”. As mulheres sabem que homens não gostam de vadias assexuadas. Você não precisa dizer isso a elas. Se você precisar falar com uma mulher sobre seu comportamento pobre, algo que ela conhece bem, está provado que ela não é merecedora de ser sua esposa ou namorada. Ao escolher ser uma ingrata, mesquinha, frígida, ela sabe que você despreza isso. Ela acha que você irá tolerar isso, porque você é um perdedor que não pode largá-la por alguém melhor. Talvez você deva provar que ela está errada.

Mas todas as mulheres são mesquinhas, vadias, loucas e ingratas em algum momento. Todas as mulheres fazem joguinhos. Se você está procurando por uma que não, na verdade você está procurando por um animal de estimação. Um cachorro bem tratado é sempre grato e nunca mesquinho.

Então se você pretende interagir com mulheres, você deve esperar por joguinhos, comportamento infantil, mesquinharia, loucura e uma completa e total falta de gratidão por tudo. Você não pode largar toda garota que é desagradável, pois nunca irá transar. Mas você precisa impor limites. Se deixar uma mulher passar por cima de você, te testar e tudo mais, você se tornará um perdedor muito infeliz e frouxo que convive com uma vadia traiçoeira e irritante.

Uma maneira de medir o status de seu relacionamento é o teste do estranho. Observe como sua esposa ou namorada trata estranhos.

Se sua esposa ou namorada é desagradável com todo mundo, então ela é uma louca instável e você precisa descartá-la agora mesmo, mude seu número de telefone e siga em frente. A não ser que você tenha um bom sistema para esconder corpos. Não desperdice seu tempo com sociopatas e doentes mentais.

Mas se ela não é (apesar de boa parte das mulheres serem), então o problema não é ela, é você. Não foque como ela te trata. Observe como ela trata os outros. Todo mundo. Os caixas do supermercado, os garçons do restaurante, os amigos, a família, caras desconhecidos que aparecem para falar com ela. Isso o ajudará a colocar as peças no lugar.

Quando sua esposa ou namorada está sendo mesquinha, ingrata e irritante com você, lembre-se, ela não é uma vadia desagradável. Ela é apenas uma vadia chata para você. Ela é perfeitamente respeitosa e gentil com os amigos dela, com os colegas de trabalho e até com estranhos na rua. Ela não sonharia em ser irritante aos outros, porque sabe que ser irritante irá afastar seus amigos, ser demitida e perder qualquer chance de causar uma boa impressão a um estranho. Mas ela é constantemente uma vadia chata com você porque acha que você é um perdedor que não fará nada sobre isso. Se você a trocar por outra garota sem mudar a si mesmo, a outra garota seria tão desprezível quanto ela em alguns meses.

A sua esposa ou namorada faz certas coisas a você, recusa a fazer algo e diz coisas terríveis que ela nunca, em um milhão de anos, diria a um amigo, a um colega de trabalho, ou a um completo estranho que ela conheceu no Starbucks?

Então ela te respeita menos que um completo estranho. Ela está tratando você, o homem que ela supostamente ama, pior do que ela trata estranhos em uma cafeteria. Você tem o pior dela, enquanto um estranho qualquer na fila do banco consegue seu melhor comportamento. O Eu mais agradável, atraente, respeitoso que ela mostrou lá atrás enquanto vocês se conheciam e ela pensou que te perderia se se comportasse mal.

Quer aquela mulher de volta? Você quer ser tratado pelo menos igual aos colegas de trabalho e estranhos que ela conhece por aí? Com a básica decência humana e respeito em vez de total desprezo, mediocridade e uma séria e completa falta de gratidão?

Se você escolher essa mulher para ser sua namorada ou esposa, ela deveria te tratar MELHOR do que os amigos dela, colegas de trabalho e estranhos que ela conhece. Outras pessoas não dão a mínima para ela, você dá, e espera o mesmo respeito que ela concede a um estranho? Você está desperdiçando seu tempo e investimento como se não valesse nada? Não duvido que ela mija em você.

Você sabe por que ela é legal com aquele estranho mas uma pessoa desprezível com você? Porque a opinião do estranho sobre ela ainda está em fluxo. Aquele estranho pode dar meia volta e ir embora agora.

Seja como um estranho para ela. Tenha suas próprias coisas, viva sua própria vida e deixe ela se perguntar quem você é, quem você se tornou, e porquê, de repente, ela se sente como não conhecesse mais você. Entreviste ela para a vaga de esposa/namorada todos os dias. Faça com que ela sinta que a sua opinião sobre ela está em constante fluxo, como se ela pudesse falhar a qualquer momento. Como se amanhã, ela perdesse você. Como se o status dela estivesse por um fio.

Porque você não é um estranho. Você tem poder sobre ela. Se ela gosta de sexo, seu dinheiro, seu tempo, o status de estar por perto de um cara legal e bonito como você, ela quer algo. Esteja sempre disposto a jogar isso fora. Até dê para alguma outra pessoa. Você trabalhou duro para ganhar o que tem. Faça com que ela trabalhe o dobro do que você trabalhou para ter o que tem.

16 horas atrás, Corleone disse:

Mas ela se irrita porque? Ciúmes?

 

Abre o jogo. Diga que está incomodado com a situação e permaneça calmo enquanto ela esperneia.

Ela sempre foi ciumenta, nada muito exagerado mas sempre foi, porém ela agora tá tendo mais ciúmes de coisas supérfluas, se eu vou jogar bola ela diz que já fica o dia todo sozinha em casa e que não tem nenhum lazer como eu tenho o futebol, a maioria das reclamações dela é por ficar muito tempo só e a noite eu ainda querer sair pra algum lugar ou ainda atrasar a chegar do trabalho, a mãe dela não mora na cidade, ela alega que se morasse ela não ficaria me impedindo de fazer as coisas pois sempre teria a companhia dos familiares dela. Ela se sente muito sozinha e esse é o principal motivo das indagas.
 

16 horas atrás, josias disse:

Como anda a vida sexual de vcs?

De mais ou menos pra boa, umas 4x por semana em média.
 

14 horas atrás, enebt disse:

 

Leia tudo:

Quando li a primeira vez esse texto me identifiquei bastante, ela trata os outros com educação, por isso também suspeito que o problema pode sim estar em mim, porém acho que ela faz muita tempestade em copo d'água, isso pode ser características de todas as mulheres, mas estou planejando uma mudança como sugere o texto. Sempre que a gente briga, normalmente no dia seguinte ela já tá bem calma e esqueceu tudo, e eu ainda estou chateado com a situação, então sempre fico distante e sinto que ela fica querendo que eu volte ao normal, puxando assunto, me adulando. Acho que tenho que começar ser assim, mais estranho, como sugere o texto. Pois até mesmo pelo que aprendi aqui no tópico, nós homens devemos controlar, punir, sempre e não deixar as coisas saírem do controle.

Mas enfim, obrigado a todos que ajudaram, vou relatando o proceder aqui.

Pow, fala pra ela começar alguma coisa, uma academia, ginastica, faculdade, jogar cs online..

Em 06/07/2016 at 12:49, FrangoEctomorfo disse:

Eu ia sair com uma hb7 que era certeza que ia me dar. Daí saí com uma hb8 que não era certeza e ela fez cu doce. O que mais rolou cmg esse ano foi cu doce. As mulheres estão mais recatadas em 2016 ou eu não tô transudo?

 

Cara, tá tudo igual.

 

O que é fazer cu doce?

 

 

 

 

Opa, saudade desse tópico.

 

Em 06/07/2016 at 12:49, FrangoEctomorfo disse:

Eu ia sair com uma hb7 que era certeza que ia me dar. Daí saí com uma hb8 que não era certeza e ela fez cu doce. O que mais rolou cmg esse ano foi cu doce. As mulheres estão mais recatadas em 2016 ou eu não tô transudo?

 É a crise Frango, mulherada tá mais seletiva. Beleza, lábia e linguagem corporal não é mais tão atrativo quanto pedir uma garrafa Chateau Mouton e pagar a conta... pera... acho que sempre foi assim hahaha

 

Em 06/07/2016 at 17:12, CassioGolden disse:

Galera, preciso de uma ajuda de vocês, conselhos.

Minha mulher (a qual estou casado há 1 ano) está mudando muito, está se irritando cada vez mais com coisas simples (ela sempre foi meio brava mas ta piorando), e ela quando se zanga não quer saber de nada, quer jogar coisas no chão, não se acalma, não quer conversa. Quando eu demoro um pouco chegar do trabalho já se zanga e tal.

Já estou pensando muito em separação porém não tenho certeza se seria a solução, ou se eu posso mudar ela, ou se o erro está em mim (ela sempre me culpa muito e por tudo).

Eu a amo e se tivesse um jeito de mudar pra salvar o casamento eu faria, porque do jeito que tá não to vendo outro jeito a nao ser separar, por isso preciso da ajuda de vocês. Grato.

Converse com ela Cassio, de uma prensa nela, se componha como homem, você n merece aturar desaforo, ou vocês conversam igual adultos e resolvam isso ou então...

 

Só não se precipite, não leve tudo a ferro e fogo se não vai chegar aos 40 com pelo menos 3 divórcios nas costas hahahahah casamento n deve ser tratado como namorico, então filtre bem o que é dito por aqui porque a maioria só quer saber de esvaziar o saco no fim de semana, eu incluso hehe

 

Lute pelo seu casamento e boa sorte, woman is a devil!

 

 

Em 06/07/2016 at 12:49, FrangoEctomorfo disse:

Eu ia sair com uma hb7 que era certeza que ia me dar. Daí saí com uma hb8 que não era certeza e ela fez cu doce. O que mais rolou cmg esse ano foi cu doce. As mulheres estão mais recatadas em 2016 ou eu não tô transudo?

se vc ostenta grana elas fazem cu doce pra te apegar

 

se vc é bad boy pobretão é só sexo sem compromisso

 

 

haha

10 horas atrás, CassioGolden disse:

Quando li a primeira vez esse texto me identifiquei bastante, ela trata os outros com educação, por isso também suspeito que o problema pode sim estar em mim, porém acho que ela faz muita tempestade em copo d'água, isso pode ser características de todas as mulheres, mas estou planejando uma mudança como sugere o texto. Sempre que a gente briga, normalmente no dia seguinte ela já tá bem calma e esqueceu tudo, e eu ainda estou chateado com a situação, então sempre fico distante e sinto que ela fica querendo que eu volte ao normal, puxando assunto, me adulando. Acho que tenho que começar ser assim, mais estranho, como sugere o texto. Pois até mesmo pelo que aprendi aqui no tópico, nós homens devemos controlar, punir, sempre e não deixar as coisas saírem do controle.

Mas enfim, obrigado a todos que ajudaram, vou relatando o proceder aqui.

 

 

pouca gente entende e acredita que essa sua energia tá atraindo as reclamações dela,

 

mas se as reclamações dela deixarem de te afetar, ela vai parar de fazer

 

 

vc talvez esteja mais estressado que seu normal anterior... o homem tem obrigação de ter auto controle es tabilidade emocional pelos dois...

se ela está fora de controle é porque provavelmente vc está um pouco instável

 

a energia entre o casal circula como se fossem um só corpo, oq vc sente interfere no emocional dela

 

 

qdo to fapando e vendo muito porn atraio vários lixos, shit tests... quando to tranqilão não recebo nada de ofensivo.. só boas vibes

ngm acredita eu sei,  mas fatos não requerem nada pra existirem

Editado 8/07/2016 às 00:15 07/8, 2016 por planeta (veja o histórico de edições)