Como Ser Alpha?

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[duh_prada]

1 hora atrás, Alecas disse:

Engenharia civil = construtora

Direito = escritorio de advocacia

 

voce quer abrir um escritorio como empreendimento? Se for, jogue duro, se não, direito, em minha opiniao, ira lhe ajudar muito pouco para empreender.

Sem contar que a parte juridica de uma empresa, vc pode muito bem contratar um escritorio para cuidar para vc.

 

No final das contas, empreender nao precisa de faculdade nenhuma, mas se analizarmos qual é mais benefica para a area, seria adm.

Bom, meu pai tem empresa, eu fiz 2 anos de um curso de negócios e agora faço direito, e pelo que ja vi sobre as dificuldades que mei pai teve na empresa, um curso de direito cairia muito melhor pra ele do que um de administração. Ainda mais no Brasil onde a tributação é ridiculamente alta, vc entendendo de direito tributário ja vai te ajudar pra caralho. Isso sem contar os direitos trabalhistas, a parte de dto civil sobre contratos, clausulas..

 

Enfim, pela minha experiencia com um pai empresario, tendo cursado as 2 areas, afirmo que direito é mais útil pra se ter uma empresa hoje em dia.. (isso é claro contando que vc seja um cara com espirito empreendor ja e tal, não to querendo dizer que um advogado q nao tem vocação nenhuma pra ser empresario vai sair de um curso de direito e vai abrir uma empresa..)

[Gekko]

Como vocês se dão com o assédio?

Dão bola, ignoram, bate um papo e pega o número, continuam andando na sua...

Editado Março 16, 2016 às 09:15 por Gekko

[NewbieTrack]

Ano passado eu cheguei a aprender html, css e php 4. Queria ser web designer,  desisti, hoje quero fazer nutrição. 

[Aroma]

8 horas atrás, Alecas disse:

Engenharia civil = construtora

Direito = escritorio de advocacia

 

voce quer abrir um escritorio como empreendimento? Se for, jogue duro, se não, direito, em minha opiniao, ira lhe ajudar muito pouco para empreender.

Sem contar que a parte juridica de uma empresa, vc pode muito bem contratar um escritorio para cuidar para vc.

 

No final das contas, empreender nao precisa de faculdade nenhuma, mas se analizarmos qual é mais benefica para a area, seria adm.

 

Sem querer puxar a sardinha para a minha brasa, mas se tem um curso que favorece empreendedorismo é o de ciências contábeis, mesmo se o fella não quiser ser contador.

 

O curso com as técnicas contábeis dá noções de planejamento, gerenciamento e controle financeiro que nenhum outro daria, fora as noções de administração, economia e o direito, em especial o tributário e trabalhista já citados.

 

 

8 horas atrás, badname disse:

Eu sei fosse a ti,não ligava porra nenhuma a esses videos. Logo ela que tem aspecto de que já levou milhares de rolos naquela bunda,nunca na vi seguiria um só conselho de uma mulher para pegar outras mulheres,nem se fosse a minha mãe a dizê-lo.

Ela como todos os "dating coaches" são uma fraude.

 

Para pegar mulheres é evoluir nós mesmos,podem gozar com o Zyzz,mas ele é o exemplo de cuidarmos de nós,termos apreço por nós,malhar,cuidar da pele,ter um penteado maneiro,vestir bem,etc...a mulherada acaba por reparar e ser atraida qual imãn.

 

Ah, a generalização

 

Cara fala que todos os dating coaches são uma fraude e banca o dating coach no parágrafo seguinte, ahuahuahau, ainda mais a Kezia, que é renomada pra caralho.

 

 

 

Abraço.

[Faabs]

Alguem sabe um bom livro sobre engenharia social?

[EderCuer]

46 minutos atrás, Faabs disse:

Alguem sabe um bom livro sobre engenharia social?

 

Me indicaram um uma vez, escrito pelo Kevin Mitnick que é considerado um dos maiores hackers conhecidos. O livro chama "A arte de enganar".

[planeta]

vi uns 5 videos da kezia e na moral ela manja

vou ver muitos mais ainda..

 

 

e é engraçado ela tem uma magia, não sei, os videos são de 10 minutos e rapidamente quando eu percebo, já está no fim

[planeta]

 

[Big Greg]

4 horas atrás, Aroma disse:

Sem querer puxar a sardinha para a minha brasa, mas se tem um curso que favorece empreendedorismo é o de ciências contábeis, mesmo se o fella não quiser ser contador.

 

O curso com as técnicas contábeis dá noções de planejamento, gerenciamento e controle financeiro que nenhum outro daria, fora as noções de administração, economia e o direito, em especial o tributário e trabalhista já citados.

Cara no meu curso de ADM tenho todas essas cadeiras que citaste, incluindo direito tributário e trabalhista, ou seja, pra quem quer empreender também é bom...

 

Mas como o @Alecas comentou se quiser empreender não precisa de faculdade, porém uma base sempre é muito válido...

 

Enfim, segue o jogo...

[planeta]

malandro esse cara é engraçado demais to vendo uns videos em sequencia to quase morrendo, o primeiro é ssó uma entrevista o segundo video é stand up comedy

 

 

 

 

 

Editado Março 16, 2016 às 16:02 por planeta

[planeta]

 

[Aroma]

1 hora atrás, Big Greg disse:

Cara no meu curso de ADM tenho todas essas cadeiras que citaste, incluindo direito tributário e trabalhista, ou seja, pra quem quer empreender também é bom...

 

Mas como o @Alecas comentou se quiser empreender não precisa de faculdade, porém uma base sempre é muito válido...

 

Enfim, segue o jogo...

 

Eu sei que tem, os curso de ADM e Contábeis convergem em muitos pontos.

 

Com a exceção do fundamental, que são as técnicas contábeis. Enquanto administradores aprendem a ler balanços, contadores aprendem a organizar, planejar e coordenar tudo que diz respeito ao financeiro da empresa.

 

 

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Sobre o lance de não ter valor aparente e ainda assim conseguir mulheres (e sobre momentos de evolução), recomendo muito essa palestra, em especial dos 9:38 até os 21:42, em que o Marshall conta como conheceu uma russa gostosíssima, em um escritório de seguro-desemprego da vida, obviamente desempregado, vestido igual um imbecil, sem confiança nenhuma de que lidaria com ela e acabou comendo.

 

 

 

"The only time when you can really shift a behaviour and have a breakthrough is at the moment when the old behaviour reaches it's peak."

 

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Esse cara é muito bom mesmo, planeta. Lembro quando eu vi esse aqui a primeira vez, me mijava de rir.

 

 

 

 

Abraço.

 

 

 

Editado Março 16, 2016 às 16:17 por Aroma

[Visitante]

4 horas atrás, Faabs disse:

Alguem sabe um bom livro sobre engenharia social?

Já li a arte de enganar, é muito bom... mas a arma mais objetiva e simples de engenharia social que já descobri foi um artigo do wikipédia:

 

Artigo falácia no Wikipédia

 

Estudando categoria por categoria, você aprende como usar para destruir argumentos e manipular os outros.

 

[duh_prada]

Assim, sob qualquer ângulo que se esteja situado para considerar esta questão, chega-se ao mesmo resultado execrável: o governo da imensa maioria das massas populares se faz por uma minoria privilegiada. Essa minoria, porém, dizem os marxistas, compor-se-á de operários. Sim, com certeza, de antigos operários, mas que, tão logo se tornem governantes ou representantes do povo, cessarão de ser operários e pôr-se-ão a observar o mundo proletário de cima do Estado; não mais representarão o povo, mas a si mesmos e suas pretensões de governá-lo. Quem duvida disso não conhece a natureza humana.

 

Filosofo russo dos anos 1800 falou isso.. tenso saber que nos dias de hoje ainda é valido..

[Bunitinhu89]

14 horas atrás, duh_prada disse:

Bom, meu pai tem empresa, eu fiz 2 anos de um curso de negócios e agora faço direito, e pelo que ja vi sobre as dificuldades que mei pai teve na empresa, um curso de direito cairia muito melhor pra ele do que um de administração. Ainda mais no Brasil onde a tributação é ridiculamente alta, vc entendendo de direito tributário ja vai te ajudar pra caralho. Isso sem contar os direitos trabalhistas, a parte de dto civil sobre contratos, clausulas..

 

Enfim, pela minha experiencia com um pai empresario, tendo cursado as 2 areas, afirmo que direito é mais útil pra se ter uma empresa hoje em dia.. (isso é claro contando que vc seja um cara com espirito empreendor ja e tal, não to querendo dizer que um advogado q nao tem vocação nenhuma pra ser empresario vai sair de um curso de direito e vai abrir uma empresa..)

 

 

Não tem como comparar um curso de direito com um de Adm se seu pai tem uma empresa o curso de ADM é 100% melhor, na minha opinião.

 

O curso de ADM pode ser superficial ver um pouco de cada área , mas você ver e enxerga varias coisas e aprende muito tanto para uma grande empresa como uma pequena empresa.

 

Meu objetivo como  empresário e empreendedor   é crescer a empresar , faturar cada vez mais gastando menos ,organizar a empresa e muitas outras coisas que são bem uteis ,e no curso de ADM vc aprende sobre direito tributário , contabilidade  e etc.. coisas que já da pra você ter uma noção.  

 

O tempo que eu gasto ganhando dinheiro em uma empresa é muito mais útil do que o tempo que vou gastar com causas trabalhistas , tributos e etc..

 

Na minha opinião , não acho que tenha o mínimo de comparação entre um e outro, mas é apenas a minha opinião, se você acha que direito vai lhe ajudar a melhorar uma empresa , vai nessa, cada um faz o que gosta . 

Editado Março 16, 2016 às 18:15 por Bunitinhu89

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Red Pill TheoryThe Guide to Accepting Yourself (even when women don't) (self.TheRedPill)

submitted 1 ano ago by [deleted]

Recently someone here posted about how women define "average" in astronomical terms, based on some bullshit a girl said while shit testing him. Most of the responses didn't understand that he was being tested because most of the commenters aren't ok with themselves at all.

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Quick Method

Know all those dating apps and sites you use? Know how you like to finely craft introductions designed to make the woman see you in a favorable light?

Don't do that.

Send any one of these messages that say, "I love me and I don't care if you do."

1 - "Boners."

2 - "Super boners."

3 - "I'm going to be playing video games all week but you can come over this weekend and do my laundry."

4 - "Do you ever get those crusties in your asshole and pick them out in the shower?"

5 - "Want to help me practice for my driver's exam? The police said I can finally get my license."

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These messages are not meant to get you a woman. The responses you receive (you will get responses) will show you how much better this type of "who really fucking cares right?" attitude matches up against, "Oh god oh god oh god I'd better say the right thing."

And that leads us to today's lesson:

You don't matter that much.

Sorry, but if the fate of the world rested on your shoulders we'd all be fucked. You're reading how-to guides about becoming ok with yourself. So really you don't matter that fucking much.

And that's fine! That's preferable. It takes pressure off your shoulders. You can walk into a bar and tell a girl that you're a martian whose pants will explode at midnight unless an earth girl removes them with her teeth. Guess what? No one will care! Tomorrow CNN will run a headline about ISIS feeding babies to elephants and your pickup line will become just another blip in the endless history of the universe.

• Corollary - Women will try to make you think that you should matter a whole lot. They'll tease you and ask you why you're not a buff macho kingpin or why you don't own 10 businesses and a thousand dogs. The important thing to notice here is:

That's what they say, not what they think.

Most women wouldn't give ten shits about your income or dog breeding knowledge if you are ok enough with yourself to show them a good time. Confidence does not come to you by knowing that you're big stuff and that you're a huge valuable part of society. If it did, hardly anyone would be confident because hardly anyone actually matters that much.

Confidence comes with knowing that you don't matter that much and that other people really don't either, women included. So if it's not that big of a deal, what do you have to lose?

Nothing.

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Little people often have big pride.

It helps them not feel little. It's a defense mechanism. Being defensive is itself a small and impotent thing to do.

Pride weighs a lot. It's one of the biggest forms of baggage and some of you have been feeling it in your chest for years without realizing it. It comes in the form of thoughts like, "What am I going to be doing a year from now? Two years from now? If all my dreams aren't coming true, I'm a worthless piece of shit."

Or, "I need the perfect body, most money, and biggest adventures or I'll be a drain on humanity, just another turd in the bucket."

Or, "If I don't bang every hot chick and turn into a fuck stud of epic proportions, I'm just another waste of space."

Guess what?

People who don't care if they get ass...get more ass than you.

People with shitty bodies who don't give a fuck...get more ass than you.

People who have zero ambition and are ok with that...get more ass than you.

If it is truly your ambition in life to become something great, then you will follow that ambition no matter what. You won't dither about it. You won't get confused and wonder if you're doing the right thing. You definitely won't beat yourself up about not doing it.

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So if you're an ambitionless ham planet and you absolutely love your life, there's no reason to qualify yourself to women ever.

If you're a healthy cut millionaire and you hate your life, well I can't help you with that. .0001% problems.

So make a list of the shit you love about yourself that women would call "immature" or "irresponsible" and then realize that shit is all in your head. Almost anything you do (short of rape and murder) can be awesome and praiseworthy if you love doing it and you're solid about that to the core.

Women will prod at you all day and shit test, saying, "Well a mature real man is like this," or, "I can only be with a man who blah blah blah." If you aren't ok with yourself, you'll cave to this type of bullshit instantly. If you're fully ok with yourself, you'll laugh it off and continue on being you.

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Remember this:

There are no rules for life other than eat, sleep, breathe, and survive. The rest is completely made up. Clothes? Optional. Words? Optional. Bathing? Optional. Dating? Made up. Relationship standards? Fiction. Breeding? Unnecessary.

You could wake up tomorrow and pretend you're an African prince who has to drive backwards to work or else the mafia will come and steal your asshole. And that would make only marginally less sense than people driving to the same workplace every day to get money to pay for a piece of the planet they were born on which can be taken away by a group of people in a big building with giant metal rooms full of green paper.

So you don't matter that much and life is ridiculous. You couldn't possibly make life any more ridiculous than it already is. So don't go around acting like every little action matters.

Accept yourself.

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[–]JovianTrainWreck 110 pontos 1 ano ago 

Pride weighs a lot. It's one of the biggest forms of baggage and some of you have been feeling it in your chest for years without realizing it. It comes in the form of thoughts like, "What am I going to be doing a year from now? Two years from now? If all my dreams aren't coming true, I'm a worthless piece of shit."

Pride often comes with a side order of a gallon-sized bottle of hard liquor and angst. This is one of my favorite posts of all time. The bit about little people and pride was a nice touch, it's easy to say that the people who shat on you in the past were just little people, but you articulated it in a way that really resonates. This isn't the first time the subject of pride-addled petty assholes was addressed recently, but you really drove it home.

I don't matter and I'm cool with that.

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[–]Cryocasm 24 pontos 1 ano ago 

I don't matter and I'm cool with that.

The frame you construct out of this is so fucking rock solid that you begin mattering without affecting or realizing it.

The weeks after I decided to quit the nice guy act in lieu of MGTOW and general idgaf attitude I quickly saw myselfmattering more than I did before. The concept, alien at the time, is now fully understood.

I still think I'm just a regular buck ass nigga. It's this frame and attitude that's actually gotten me way further than any other frame or attitude.

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[–]GuidoBandito 9 pontos 1 ano ago 

While not a "buck ass nigga", I'm still trying to tell myself it's ok to be who I am and that I deserve the best life can throw at me. I hope the best for you on your journey...

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[–]Cryocasm 11 pontos 1 ano ago 

I used it more as an expression to emphasize my point.

Objectively, I am a semi-affluent average caucasian male.

Being OK with myself has more to do with sizing my ego into "my size". Obviously if I change my size my ego changes.

Just think about if you wear shitty clothes, people will think your ego is way out of proportion. If you wear a sharp suit and have a fresh cut, people will almost expect your ego to be fucking big.

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[–]mandemscomin 2 pontos 11 meses ago 

...just trying to do the right thing. But two weeks later he killed her. Of course. Caved her head in with the base of a Waring blender. We got there, there was so much blood you could taste the metal. The moral of the story is: I chose a half measure, when I should have gone all the way. I’ll never make that mistake again. No more half measures, Walter.

I did exactly what you did and tried to resist "you don't matter that much" by saying "almost". Well, after about six months of that I'm still in the same boat as before. You just can't change unless you actually, genuinelychange something about yourself.

The point is you'll never truly appreciate the value of "you don't matter that much" until you embrace it wholeheartedly.

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[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible[M] 145 pontos 1 ano ago 

To succeed, you must be willing to fail again and again. To be willing to fail again and again, give less fucks.

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[–]Meristry 205 pontos 1 ano ago* 

This hits home. Hard.

All my life, I've wanted to become some sort of new epitome of mankind. Boatloads of money, the hottest women, kick-ass career, you name it. I wanted it all.

There is nothing wrong with that, but there certainly is something wrong with the incentive I've been waking up for: I didn't want to reach those goals to become a better version of myself, to grow as a person, but, and you've absolutely hit the nail on the head, to receive validation from others. I've been having dreams in which I win the lottery and all the social acceptance that ships with it. I now realize how sick that is.

Your post has shown me that I really have a long way to go. Not because my ego is too small, but because it's too damn big. Thank you.

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[–]Casanova-Quinn 117 pontos 1 ano ago 

Not because my ego is too small, but because its too damn big.

This reminds me of the perspective change I had about "shy" people.

The common perception is shy people have small egos, but it's really the opposite. Shy people are so concerned with their "image" they present to others, that they act "shy" because of a fear of judgement. It's sad really, because shy people are literally policing themselves on what they can or can't do, based on a made up perception of what others are thinking.

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[–]ProductivityMonster 12 pontos 1 ano ago* 

this hits home. I was always like this, but I've gotten over myself somewhat recently through constantly forcing myself into social interactions, no matter how much I didn't want to do it. It even bled over into my productivity because I was such a perfectionist, I never wanted to hand the project in leading to a lot of late projects (or sometimes I would start late on a hard project if I thought I would suck at it so I could give myself the psychological excuse that it was the lateness and not my lack of ability for handing in a sub-par project). Fortunately, B-school beat this out of me. Lose the ego/rose colored glasses and build yourself up from reality is a main TRP message.

olá, sou um marciano e minha cabeça vai explodir se uma terraquea não tirar minha roupa até meia noite

[Fabricius]

Tapa na cara

[duh_prada]

3 horas atrás, Bunitinhu89 disse:

 

 

Não tem como comparar um curso de direito com um de Adm se seu pai tem uma empresa o curso de ADM é 100% melhor, na minha opinião.

 

O curso de ADM pode ser superficial ver um pouco de cada área , mas você ver e enxerga varias coisas e aprende muito tanto para uma grande empresa como uma pequena empresa.

 

Meu objetivo como  empresário e empreendedor   é crescer a empresar , faturar cada vez mais gastando menos ,organizar a empresa e muitas outras coisas que são bem uteis ,e no curso de ADM vc aprende sobre direito tributário , contabilidade  e etc.. coisas que já da pra você ter uma noção.  

 

O tempo que eu gasto ganhando dinheiro em uma empresa é muito mais útil do que o tempo que vou gastar com causas trabalhistas , tributos e etc..

 

Na minha opinião , não acho que tenha o mínimo de comparação entre um e outro, mas é apenas a minha opinião, se você acha que direito vai lhe ajudar a melhorar uma empresa , vai nessa, cada um faz o que gosta . 

 

Sei lá, minha opinião talvez seja meio deturpada pq eu sempre vivi em uma casa com um pai que é empresario, então pra mim os conhecimentos do curso de adm ja eram coisas que eu tinha como 'normal', essa visão de negocios que é passado no curso, sempre tive em casa, vai ver é por isso que achei meio inútil..

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Red Pill TheoryPower: the ability to choose who to fuck (self.TheRedPill)

submitted 9 months ago * by TRP VanguardArchwinger

A human being’s power in society is primarily defined by one ability: the ability to exclude others. The boss chooses who to hire. The cool kids choose who to befriend. The hot girls chose who to fuck and who to reject. That means our sexual power is defined by the ability to exclude others from having sex with us. Phrased a little more “sex-positively,” the power of men and women stems from their ability to choose who to have sex with. If you have that choice, you are powerful. If you lack that choice, you are weak.

An attractive man, good looking in both face and body, well dressed and groomed exuding wealth and professional success, with a great smile, commanding voice, charming personality, smarts to spare, and lots of interesting things to talk about – that guy is powerful. Why? He has his choice of women. He doesn’t need to consider fucking a woman that’s not pretty, not interesting, not kind and respectful, not smart, or that’s difficult to deal with, sexually or otherwise. And the women who want him know that, so they’ll bend over backward and make whatever compromises are needed to fuck him, on his terms, because the alternative would be to not fuck him at all and to have to settle for a less attractive man.

A less attractive man, average looking, average success, pleasant chump personality – that guy isn’t very powerful. Why? He doesn’t have his choice of women. He still has some sex, but it’s basically the few women willing to put out for him over his lifetime. It doesn’t matter if they’re pretty, respectful, sexually generous, or difficult bitches. They’re his only opportunities. He has the limited choice to fuck them, because they’re what’s available to him, or to fuck nobody. When he fucks them, it’s on their terms. When they want, how they want, and after jumping through whatever hoops and making whatever compromises they insist on. Because they’re his only chance and they know it.

An even less attractive man, who doesn’t make any effort at all, is completely powerless. Why? He has no options at all. Not even a yes/no choice. Women don’t just walk up to a man with nothing and offer themselves. A man who makes no effort doesn’t have sex at all. Women choose not to fuck him. They’re the ones with the power of choice.

A powerful man will therefore be a man who fucks a lot of women, or if he doesn’t for whatever reason, a man with the opportunity to fuck a lot of women. A man many women want to fuck.

Any woman who’s not completely ugly has power. Because unlike men, any woman – even the ones who make no effort – can still have at least some sexual opportunities. Most women have multiple sexual opportunities and revel in the ability to choose who to fuck and who to exclude. Unlike men, women can simply go to the club in a dress, sit down, and wait for fuck applicants to approach them, buy them drinks, and attempt to entertain them. At the end of the night, a woman goes home with her best offer, normally choosing from among multiple applicants. If she’s not feeling it, she may even choose none, because she knows she’ll have plenty of opportunities next weekend.

A powerful woman will therefore be a woman who rejects a lot of men. Her power lies in the ability to choose who to fuck.

Sexual freedom is the highest priority of women’s advocates in the world. Everything they’ve fought for has had the end goal of female power – the female ability to choose who to fuck. This is partly why rape is considered such a heinous crime, probably worse than murder. Rape is far more than just unwanted physical contact. If you beat the hell out of a woman, that’s bad, but raping her is a whole different level, because rape is sexual, not just physical. If you rape a woman, you’ve robbed her of her greatest power – the power to choose who to fuck. She didn’t choose you, but you stole her choice. Rape is about power, just ask feminists.

Abortion? Easy access to contraception? The healthcare landscape? Same deal. Pregnancy hinders a woman’s ability to choose who to fuck, so these are cornerstones of every woman’s advocate. Your wife’s pregnant but doesn’t want a second child? It’s her body. She can terminate as many of your pregnancies as she wants and you’d never know. Your wife’s been cheating, gets pregnant, has the baby, and after a running some tests, her doctor notices that the baby can’t possibly be yours? He can’t legally tell you. He and your wife speak privately about the baby’s medical care and test results and collude to keep everything hidden from you, put your name on the birth certificate, and have you raise that child as your own for two decades. Because…uh…it’s her body? She gets to choose who to have sex with and whether or not to cheat. Violating her privacy would hinder that choice.

The modern marriage? More of the same. A married woman has no obligation to fuck her husband. He’s not allowed to cheat. He’s not allowed to rape her. He’s not allowed to complain or pressure her into sex – that’s coercion. She unilaterally controls his sex life. He’s supposed to sit quietly and hope she chooses to have sex with him. The power is hers. She chooses, he hopes to be chosen. She’s his only option and she knows it. He does have an out: he can choose to pay her off. File for divorce, give her the house, half his assets, and write her a check every month for the foreseeable future. What’s that? He doesn’t want to lose his kids because he loves them? That’s silly. Men don’t care about shit like that, right? Women are the better parents who bond with children. They told me so. Men just care about sex and money.

Women’s advocates will proudly tell men that if they have a problem with this system, don’t worry – they’re fighting for the solution: economic parity. If you marry a wealthy professional woman, you don’t have to pay her as much to divorce her. And financially independent women are a great thing, because that’s more sexual freedom. They can choose to fuck more attractive men instead of whoring themselves out once a month to keep the paychecks coming from a loser husband.

The world is fighting hard for female power, and female power isn’t going away. Women will always have the power to choose who to fuck, and they will have to put in next to no work to have that power. It’s their birthright.

The Red Pill is one symptom of the male world’s reaction to this. Only a small minority of men get to taste that same power – the ability to choose which women to fuck – the ability to be more powerful than women while the women work (albeit often ineptly) for the attentions of worthy men. The male response to female power is pretty simple: grow stronger. Be that minority of men. The only other option is to quit.

They’ll never say it out loud, but women love the Red Pill. Not the anti-woman rants and shit talking we do around here. Not the idea that a guy might fake looking like he’s worth a shit and trick a woman into sex (robbing her of her power through deception). They love the end result – men who are actually powerful. Women want to be fucked silly by a man who’s more powerful than they are. But an unforeseen side effect of women’s advocacy has made that difficult. So many men have quit the game or have assumed their assigned role as a pleasant chump hoping to be chosen as a resource provider in exchange for an occasional fuck. Women got what they thought they wanted, and it sucks. What they really want is to be fucked silly by a man that’s worth a shit, which have become a commodity that’s in much shorter supply.

My friends, just by recognizing this, you are already a cut above the loser chumps of the world. Just walking up to a girl and being direct about your intentions, risking rejection, sets you apart from ninety percent of the universe. The time is so ripe for all of you. You can be one tenth of a badass and look better than every single man in the room, because men have forgotten how to be badass. You can bathe in pussy if you just do the work. Don’t do laundry, don’t do backrubs, don’t do gifts, don’t do feelings, just do the fucking work. Women don’t want to fuck money. They don’t want to fuck labor. They want to fuck men. They’ll occasionally whore themselves out for money and labor, but yearn for men. Don’t be money and labor. Be men.

[planeta]

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Red Pill TheoryAssume Formlessness (self.TheRedPill)

submitted 6 days ago * by Endorsed ContributorCopperFox3c

Summary: A man’s power lies in his ability to walk away. Freedom is a thing that derives from boundaries. But ironically, so does enslavement.

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Many of you may recognize the phrase ”Assume Formlessness” … it is Law of Power #48. You’ll notice in that thread, and in the few other threads about the topic on this sub, there is minimal discussion. Which is unfortunate, becauseAssuming Formlessness is one of the critical laws. Indeed, its mere practice subsumes many of the other laws.

The blue pill man is one who allows others to define him. To set the boundaries. If the feminists say it’s offensive, then he changes what he does. What he believes. He lets them pin him down, to put him in a cage. He is not free. The same is true of personal relationships. If his girlfriend or wife complains that something is bothering her, then he changes what he does.

You see, once they’ve pinned you down, you’ve already lost.

In recent years, a lot of the women I date/plate tell me “I’ve never been with anyone like you” or “I can’t figure you out”. They desperately want to define me. But I purposely refuse to take shape. I often do things that are complete polar opposites, moving from affectionate to asshole, genius to jock, classy city slicker to backwoods country boy. I am an amalgamation of many things, seamlessly shifting from one to the next, never pausing for long in one state. I am unpredictable.

And it drives them fucking nuts. The hamster wheel spins on overdrive.

That is what we mean by “mysterious”. What we mean when we say “frame”.Frame is not something you define … it is the refusal to be defined by others.

A simple red pill hack is play the asshole, a good method to fake-it-till-you-make-it for beginners … though we know the secret of the jerk is something much more subtle.

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There are many examples of this.

For instance, responding to Shit Tests is mainly the art of evasion, since shit tests are an attempt to force you to “take form”, take a stance, a position, defend yourself. Techniques like Amused Mastery and Agree & Amplify are simply methods to deflect. Your power lies in your unpredictability. When you should defend, you attack. And when you should attack, you laugh. Simply put, you don’t fit the mold.

The same goes for Holding Frame … anger is allowing someone else to “define” you. Or Spinning Plates … it is simply a method of evading commitment. In a similar vein, Abundance Mentality is not being defined by a relationship. The reason abundance mentality works is because – by not being reliant on one woman for your identity – neither is your self-worth or self-respect reliant on that one woman. You are free because you are independent of her. You are free because you remained formless.

And when shit hits the fan, you retain your only real power: Being Willing to Walk Away. There is no weakness to attack. Nothing to bind you. Nothing to pin you down.

Machiavellianism at its core is rooted in similar formlessness: unpredictability.

Ironically, even things like Avoiding Apologizing for SJW shaming language underscore the importance of assuming formlessness, like this recent postpointed out. Or examples like Tim Hunt and Allen Frantzen. Apologizing – relenting to shaming tactics – in that situation is creating form out of the intangible. You are merely giving others a target at which to shoot.

What is perhaps most interesting is that it is assuming formlessness that also underlies Chad the “Natural Alpha” … think about it, remember him from high school, how he could do “nerdy” things and yet not be seen as a “nerd”. Regardless of what he did, he was not defined by others. Moreover, he had no fear of being defined by others. Women sense that shit. For women desire men who shape the world, not those that are shaped by it.

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The unifying theme behind all the above concepts boils down to a simple truth:Assume Formlessness. Freedom is a thing that derives from boundaries.But ironically, so does enslavement. The difference, my friends, is in who is doing the defining.

A true Red Pill man is one who enforces his own boundaries, while evading those which others try to place upon him. He is the definer, not the defined. He is the chairmaker, yet he who himself never sits upon the chair.

The greatest power in this world is that which is covert, not overt. One who cannot be defined is one who wields such power covertly. It is not the large thug who scares you … rather it’s his conniving, unpredictable snake of a boss. True danger lies in things unseen.

Whether it be life or love or politics or whatever, refuse to take shape. Cultivate formlessness. Be visible, but unseen. Let them wonder.

“Be extremely subtle even to the point of formlessness. Be extremely mysterious even to the point of soundlessness. Thereby you can be the director of the opponent’s fate.” – Sun Tzu

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[–]thickskinnedwhiteass 29 points 6 days ago 

This is enlightening. Great post. Thank you for sharing. We are all conscious about something, something which makes us insecure or makes us question ourself. One may think he's not smart enough, one that he's not a sleek talker while the other may think that he's not worthy of a certain love. This list can go on but the important part is to realise that such psychological insecurities stem from our identification with certain situations which may have taken place in the past. You may have fumbeled in front of your boss or peers causing you to think you're not smart, or may have slurred your speech during a talk causing you to doubt your confidence etc. You may react in a certain beta way around girls you find hot. These past negatives in your head make youASSUME FORM. The form of being dumb/shy/beta etc. You start to identify with these forms and you assume that this is who you are at your core. But the beautiful thing is that you're not.

You are not your thoughts nor your past fuck ups. That is why what the OP is saying is enormous in the sense that you have to realise that you are NO thing. You are formless. I would say don't just assume formlessness, embrace it and be the FORMLESS.

Example You're in front of your boss, you're giving your presenration. The old forms come back to haunt you - you're too dumb, you can't even talk, you're not confident enough.

While identified with form - voice is breaking, trying to sound smart, trying to please, stuck in his head, constant fear of being judged, body is rigid throughout with a monotonous tone.

After assuming formlessness - started enunciating words way too clearly for a minute and then suddenly started rambling. His hand gestures are flailing and in everyone's face, the next minute they're behind his back. His vocal tone is fluctuating from a whisper to a loud bang of a point. He is nothing. He is not inhibited. He is formless and in being formless he's shedding away his old skin of identification with his past and he's giving himself to life and to the moment. Be formless.

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[–]Endorsed ContributorCopperFox3c[S] 2 points 6 days ago* 

True. I think a fundamental question is why men adopt form at all, when all the evidence suggests that it is detrimental to them? What compels them to do so? Some sense of safety, security? A fear-driven process they couldn't shake from their childhood?

It really serves no purpose outside of supporting a gynocentric worldview.

[badname]

12 horas atrás, Aroma disse:

 

Sem querer puxar a sardinha para a minha brasa, mas se tem um curso que favorece empreendedorismo é o de ciências contábeis, mesmo se o fella não quiser ser contador.

 

O curso com as técnicas contábeis dá noções de planejamento, gerenciamento e controle financeiro que nenhum outro daria, fora as noções de administração, economia e o direito, em especial o tributário e trabalhista já citados.

 

 

 

Ah, a generalização

 

Cara fala que todos os dating coaches são uma fraude e banca o dating coach no parágrafo seguinte, ahuahuahau, ainda mais a Kezia, que é renomada pra caralho.

 

 

 

Abraço.

Mano,não estou a bancar de dating coach,estou só a dizer um hábito que milhões fazem,sermos nós mesmos sem preocupar com a opinião alheia.

Ela própria,renomada entre os PUAessa fraude chamada de Kezia faz lembrar aqueles videntes que parecem mágicos mas estão só a dizer o óbvio por palavras elaboradas,ela basicamente disse que devemos ser nós mesmos sem tentar agradar á mulher que estamos a falar.

 

Ora tu não pensas o mesmo?Logicamente sem ter que gastar 10000 reais no curso dela?

Não quero nem sei ser dating coach,com as suas técnicas rapport e kinagem,e fazer formulas 20% de Indirectas e 80% cocky, e outras viadagens.

 

[Aroma]

1 hora atrás, badname disse:

Mano,não estou a bancar de dating coach,estou só a dizer um hábito que milhões fazem,sermos nós mesmos sem preocupar com a opinião alheia.

Ela própria,renomada entre os PUAessa fraude chamada de Kezia faz lembrar aqueles videntes que parecem mágicos mas estão só a dizer o óbvio por palavras elaboradas,ela basicamente disse que devemos ser nós mesmos sem tentar agradar á mulher que estamos a falar.

 

Ora tu não pensas o mesmo?Logicamente sem ter que gastar 10000 reais no curso dela?

Não quero nem sei ser dating coach,com as suas técnicas rapport e kinagem,e fazer formulas 20% de Indirectas e 80% cocky, e outras viadagens.

 

 

Você pode pensar isso e eu posso pensar o mesmo, mas talvez seja porque devo ter umas 10 mil horas de pesquisa e prática de game. E o cara que ainda está preso na matrix, não são informações relevantes?

 

E eu espero sinceramente que você em outras ocasiões você obtenha uma base sólida para criticar qualquer pessoa ou conceito que seja, já que está criticando tanto a Kezia assim.

 

Ao meu ver ela é de fato um dos coachs mais renomados que há por aí. Seus vídeos tem informações e sacadas que outros mais do mesmo não tem. O fato dela ser mulher é um pro, não um contra (tudo isso ao meu ver).

 

 

 

Abraço.

[cormaya]

só eu que acho muito loser esses lance de pua, social coach, date coach, etc.?

[Patrick Bateman]

se o raciocínio fosse esse, era muito mais vantagem fazer economia ao invés de contábeis e adm (adm é subcurso, HUE! kkkk)

 

se vc for pegar o que o Flávio e muitos empreendedores dizem, invista seu tempo no que é necessário aprender pro seu negócio.

 

empreender é algo único, nenhuma universidade te prepara pra isso.

[Fabricius]

1 hora atrás, cormaya disse:

só eu que acho muito loser esses lance de pua, social coach, date coach, etc.?

Claro, até porque todo mundo nasce sabendo de tudo sobre relacionamentos e só estamos é de zueira .

[M4thAC]

O problema aqui é que muitos tentam rotular o ser humano com um só. Cada ser é individual, e cada gatilho é ativado de uma forma diferente em cada um, principalmente o do rapport que vocês tanto almejam. Já conheci muito cara que aqui seria considerado beta casado com uma mulher linda e feliz. A verdade é que muitos perdem tanto tempo colocando limitações e todo aquele blabla que esquecem de viver.

 

Vou falar uma coisa pra vocês: De todos os anos que me dedico à PNL, hipnose, linguagem corporal e derivados, a coisa mais evidente que eu aprendi observando milhares de pessoas é que ninguém é igual a ninguém. Generalizações geram crenças limitantes facilmente.

[Gekko]

A maioria aqui é um bando de fresco que não consegue pegar uma mulher sequer e fica escondendo seu fracasso atrás de falta de conhecimento, sendo que oq realmente falta é experiência.

[Tanin]

10 horas atrás, cormaya disse:

só eu que acho muito loser esses lance de pua, social coach, date coach, etc.?

 

Ou você tenta ser Alpha ou você curte essas betices de pua,social coach etc.Os dois não dá.

Num tópico que se chama "Como ser Alpha", esses assuntos deveriam ser piada unânime aqui, mas infelizmente são levados a sério.

 

7 horas atrás, Gekko disse:

A maioria aqui é um bando de fresco que não consegue pegar uma mulher sequer e fica escondendo seu fracasso atrás de falta de conhecimento, sendo que oq realmente falta é experiência.

Certeza que devem ter uns aqui com uma pasta no computador chamada "Como pegar mulher" com uns 150 pdf's dentro. Depois de ler tudo, baixam mais 50 porque ainda sentem que não estão prontos (e nunca estarão). Parece que nunca saíram de casa, percebo isso quando um cara conta que conversou com uma mulher na rua e alguns aqui do tópico ficam curiosos e aplaudem o fato de o cara ter falado com mulher.  Caraca!!! Fala sério ! Na boa, é inaceitável ser postado nesse tópico vídeos intitulados "como falar/flertar com mulheres e coisas do tipo" , sério, se você precisa disso pode jogar suas bolas fora.

Tem outros que parecem que quando saem e encontram uma mulher atraente passando na rua e usando roupas curtas já voltam correndo para casa para contar como o mundo está perdido e voltam a se isolar no porão . Sem contar que alguns não gostam de balada, acham que toda mulher é vagaba, não possuem vida social e mesmo assim esperam casar com uma princesa virgem e culta .

A fonte de material que buscam para ser Alpha é péssima, utilizam fóruns para nerds revoltados (PUA,REAL e congêneres), páginas com fotos do Jason Statham com frases balonies pseudo-alpha cheio de indiretinhas ou então aquelas páginas que colocam fotos de gangsters com frases toscas .

 

Sair de casa e colocar tudo em prática que é bom, nada!

Não dá, I'm out!

 

 

 

 

Editado Março 17, 2016 às 12:43 por Tanin